Bhindi fry (okra fry) is very famous in north and south places, but it is prepared differently in each house. In our home I fry it as I do for other vegetables stir fry (Poriyal), but in this we have to keep stiring Bhindi(Okra) as it can stick to the vessel because of its gluey and sticky texture. Bhindi(Okra) fry is my brothers and my mother in laws favourite, of course me to, we all love it.
Here in UK, I get the frozen and cut pieces, where my cutting work is reduced but whenever you buy Bhindi(Okra) , buy small or medium size Bhindi (Okra) and try to break at the end, it easily breaks , it means fresh, I often see ladies doing that in the market or simply pick up tender and fresh ones.